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I might be showing how far behind the times I am here, but I came across a story recently, which might make you think about right and wrong online.
Some of you might know
Craig's List. It's an internet bulletin board started in San Francisco and is now available all over the world.
In 2006,
a couple of jokers in Seattle posted at ad posing as a submissive female looking for a dominant male to defile her. The aim was to see how many responses they could get in 24 hours.
They got 178 replies and 145 photos.
People sent email addresses from home and work, phone numbers as well as their real names in some cases.
Next they posted all the replies on a wiki-satire site called
Encyclopaedia Dramatica, with the goal of getting people to identify the respondents in real life.
The ethical debate has been raging ever since. The story was picked up by various news outlets including the
BBC.
Opinion:This ain't cool.
The men who replied weren't doing anything illegal - the ad was posted by an apparently consenting adult seeking a consenting adult for an activity in their own home. If they were trying to out kiddy-fiddlers, I'd have a different opinion.
Even if this is what you are into, you don't need to have it broadcast to the world; possibly affecting all other aspects of their lives.
The issue here is within society as well. Why should your interest in any variety of legal sexual activity affect your professional or social life? Who are we to judge others by what they like with their privates?
Yet we still live in a world where hatred and intolerance are rife; where violence against those who are different still occurs.
An example: the British blogger who wrote
"girl with a one track mind" anonymously. It describes here experience as a sexually active woman in London. The site became so popular that it was turned into a novel.
The day the book was released a bunch of flowers arrived at her door. The courier made her lean out the door to sign. What she didn't know, was that there was a photographer in her garden. The card on the flowers said: "Zoe (her pseudonym). Congratulations on the book."
The story broke the next day in the
Sunday times. She was hounded by the press, received threatening letters and her family was even harassed. She lost her job working on the Harry Potter films on the grounds that they didn't want to be associated with her.
Yet at the same time, Danny Radcliffe can get
his shlong out in the West-end with no worries at all.
This is an example of a double standard and how someone's personal life can ruin the other aspects of their life - for no good reason.
Let's leave Bill Clinton out for the time being.
People have sex.
Most likely not with you.
Get over it.
Lets work on that evolution people.